My family has always been well-run and structured, but avoids becoming uptight by making sure fun and togetherness are both interjected. When I was young we often stuck to strict schedules – homework had to be completed at a specific time, and dinner was promptly at 7PM. But things changed as I got older and my parents allowed me more freedom. All of this was interjected with unforgettable outings and great vacations that brought us together as a family. Today, I credit my polite demeanor with the structure that I was raised with, as I was always taught to respect my elders before getting respect back from them. I believe that structure is an essential part of a strong family unit.